You didn't want to be there

in my classes today, that is. It was a huge, huge call to order and it worked. I put on my drill sergent hat and gave them a huge speech on why they needed to be quiet, reminding them of the class rules- all of this while they were standing. I told them from now on, they walk in and under no circumstance do they sit down until they've taken off their coats and hats, they've put their 'carnet de correspondance' (a book used to correspond with the parents) on their desk in front of them, and I've said 'Good Morning or Afternoon' and they've responded back and then I say 'Sit Down'. And, I told them that the first person who talks without raising their hand will get a punishment, which means even when I ask the date, they need to raise their hands and not just blurt it out. I walked around class a lot today and really cracked down and for once, we had a decent class and they know I'm serious. After a few classes like this it will come naturally to them.

I think a lot of new teachers want the students to like them, want them to go home and say to their parents how cool their teacher is. But, when you think about it, a cool teacher isn't the one who lets the class get out of hand. It's the one who can find that nice balance between control and fun. I tried to be funny by replacing the word 'Walkman' with 'Ipod' in the text today, and they liked it. And, if you think about it, a parent is never going to complain that you are keeping the class under control and a student isn't going to go home and say 'I hate my teacher, she made us be quiet the whole class'. So, it is so necessary to be really strict now. After today, I am much, much more optimistic for this year. My students also love to participate in the exercises, which helps.

To top it off, I ran into the principal in the hallway today and she apologized for the misunderstanding concerning my absence. She asked for me to make an appointment with her anyway because she'd like to discuss the procedures with the parents, etc... Because my colleague said I didn't need to be at the back to school meeting that I was actually supposed to be at, the parents are all worried that they didn't meet me and that their kids don't have the right materials, etc., so I feel that we are going to spend a couple weeks getting caught up and on the same page in that class.

But, all in all, self confidence hugely paid off today and it was an excellent day. Hopefully, it will continue and end in a successful year.

Comments

[Jessica]

I wholeheartedly agree - good teachers do not try to be friends with their students. It is important to have a very clear boundary line, and high expectations. One can be kind and strict at the same time. Very similar to good parenting, really.

Sounds like you're doing great!

[samantha]

Congratulations! Like you said, a few more classes like that and they will get the hang of it, and you'll be able to really get down to teaching them English!

[Alison]

Good, good!

[La Rêveuse]

Way to go, Andie! I knew you could do it. ;) 6th graders can be trying, but it's worth it in the end. Just let them know it's not them you're angry with, it's their choice of behavior, and make sure the slate really is clean when you promise it will be, and they will learn to respect and trust you. I'm excited for you! MS is such a fun age. :) (Yes, I really mean that!)

[Jadie]

The standard remedy has always been, "start firm, then loosen up". Once you establish you're in control, you will be able to shape and adapt the class. Nice start!